Hi there!
I always say my story is not in the books of today. I haven't read a story like mine not even in the internet. I google a lot. yes, everything that confuses me i google immediately and i have not yet found a story close to mine.
i am a 24 year old virgin living in Lagos. I work with a private company and i work really hard. you know the way lagos is. you wake up at 5 a.m.to beat the habitual traffic. you get to work and you have to earn your cash. atimes you skip meals and you compensate yourself with a huge dinner.
i decided to blog to tell the world what i go through emotionally because of the way i have chosen to live my life. it all started in secondary school when i made up my mind i wasn't gonna have sex till i got married. my friends laughed at me when i told them this and one of them said to me 'hey let's bet it, by your second year in the university, tell me you have never had sex!'
yes i made up my mind a long time ago to go through this route. i always fantasized sleeping with my husband for the first time after our wedding party. i envision a man that is not really interested in who attends the wedding party or what gifts he recieves but preoccupies his mind with the thought of his young maiden as a wife. ps tell me if im talking rubbish coz honestly i still want this to happen.
so this please come with me as i take you round my world. tell me honestly what you think of my lifestyle. i will appreciate your thoughts on this.
i will be back tommorrow to begin my story. this is just my intro..lol
so till then, its bye for now!
7 comments:
Your blog name caught my attention on a blogs comment page...I have to say you're very brave. As an 18 yr old I guess it's normal for me to still be a virgin...but in the environment I'm in(british school) the pressure is much. However not so much that I can't handle and I know not as much as they will be in Uni.
When I was younger I alwways imagined that I would stay a virgin till I got married, however as I'm growing older it's starting to seem very impractical and almost impossible. I don't know yet but I'm looking forward to reading the rest of your story
@tiwalade, thnx a lot! its wonderful to know that you have the intention to remian a virgin till u get married. trust me, its not an easy journey. there are a lot of thorns on the way, but i know the end is rewarding. God will never let you down. im glad you will also read the rest of my stories...i hope you will learn from them and also gather a lot of strenght from them too.
cheers xxx
...you make it sound idealistic while 'tis actually realistic. Oh, not to worry, people will always talk trash about being a virgin.....but, you know the truth, they really did wish they still could be.
And since they can't (not even buy it back) they proclaim the gospel of not being a virgin's the ideal.
We all do make choices, but, what matters is keeping (holding on to) those choices when it matters most. Cheers.
@retoths, thanks for your feedback. you are just right. i will hold on tight to your comments. thanks
I already love your blog. Inspiring!
Welcome to blogspot. I'm a teenager (like Tiwa) in 2nd year in uni and its encouraging to read your story.
thanks ladi...i am happy to know my blog inspires you.the university is the most enjoyable period in a person's life. enjoy it, make the most of it.
cheers xxx
Welcome to Blogville! I was attracted by your blog name and I really applaud you for taking that decision and sticking with it. I'm the same age as you and I made the same decision. I have to say I've never regretted it! You are not alone, there are people who make that decision to wait until their wedding night too. For some reason, not many of them are bold to admit it in public! As Rethots said, most people wish they could have held back and waited before letting go of their virginity. So keep it up girl!
(PS: you can read my story on my blog)
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